{"id":5078,"date":"2019-05-18T12:28:24","date_gmt":"2019-05-18T19:28:24","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/?p=5078"},"modified":"2022-02-12T14:32:24","modified_gmt":"2022-02-12T21:32:24","slug":"ageism-is-alive-and-well","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/ageism-is-alive-and-well\/","title":{"rendered":"Ageism Is Alive and Well"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>By Deena Williams Newman<\/em><\/p>\n<p>It&rsquo;s not fair; but who said life was fair?&nbsp; A normally upbeat 63-year-old man is devastated when he is laid off with no explanation; he learns he will be replaced by someone much younger the company does not have to pay as much.&nbsp; A 60-year-old woman is not happy at her job and needs to make a move, but finds it difficult to find anything else at her age.&nbsp; A recently divorced woman, age 56, finds it impossible to make ends meet on her low salary, but finds her employment options are limited. &nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Time and time again, mature adults are getting shafted.&nbsp; Age discrimination is alive and well.&nbsp; Some of the baby boomers (born between 1946 and 1964) have already left or will be leaving the work force in the next several years.&nbsp; Others are doing well, living longer, and do not intend to give up working any time soon.&nbsp; Still others, due to circumstances beyond their control, are forced to step aside. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Congress passed the Age Discrimination in Employment Act in 1967, and it was later amended.&nbsp; Employers with 20 or more employees cannot discriminate against employees who are over 40 years old. <sup>1<\/sup> Unfortunately, many companies don&rsquo;t seem to be aware of this law or they essentially ignore it. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Author Dana Wilkey wrote an article in 2018 published by the Society for Human Resource Management titled, &ldquo;Discrimination Against Older Workers May be Common but Hard to Prove.&rdquo;&nbsp; She quoted Laurie McCann, a senior attorney for the AARP Foundation Litigation.&nbsp; McCann said, &ldquo;The things that employers say, write or intimate about age can be so subtle that they don&rsquo;t provide a smoking gun that can prove discrimination.&rdquo; <sup>2<\/sup>&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Why It Is Wrong<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Why is it wrong to ignore mature adults?&nbsp; First, some good, talented people are treated unfairly and become bitter instead of using their skills.&nbsp; Others may take a job for which they are overqualified just to keep some health insurance and retirement benefits.&nbsp; It is a tragic waste of resources.<\/p>\n<p>Second, it is wrong because people should never be discriminated against because of gender, race, ethnic background, sexual orientation or age.&nbsp; Many individuals who are 65 have wisdom and skills they need and want to share.&nbsp; Work environments full of 30- and 40-year-old employees can be boring, lacking the patience and maturity that time and experience bring.&nbsp; Diversity is vital to the health of any organization.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Third, it is wrong because it glorifies the current youth culture, which silently broadcasts that everything young is good and everything old is bad.&nbsp; New blood and talents are seen as necessary to progress and move ahead.&nbsp; Older employers are sometimes viewed as simply holding the organization back. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>What Can Churches Do?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>What can and should churches do?&nbsp; Christians should reach out to older employees in their congregation, wrap their arms around them, and offer support and encouragement.&nbsp; They can offer skills training, resume writing help, computer classes and other services. &nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>One big hurdle for mature adults is technology, which seems to change almost daily.&nbsp; Computer skills are essential for mature adults to search for a new job or to keep their current job.&nbsp; Some employers have complained unfairly that older adults are slower to catch on and have difficulty with rapidly changing programs and systems.&nbsp; This may be expected for individuals who came of age before widespread computer use. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Churches should provide retirement advice for those who are considering leaving the workplace.&nbsp; Many have debated the best age for retirement.&nbsp; Financial guru Suze Orman has suggested 70 as the ideal age to retire, while others have indicated that a person&rsquo;s life situation, such as health issues, caregiving responsibilities and financial circumstances should determine the best age to retire. <sup>3<\/sup><\/p>\n<p>Churches should also lead by example in their pastor and staff searches.&nbsp; While older ministers have many years of experience, they are often overlooked in job searches.&nbsp; Often the attitudes of church personnel committee members are just as bad &#8212;&nbsp; if not worse than &#8212; those in the corporate world.&nbsp; Churches should consider a 60-year-old person with 35 years of experience instead of a 35-year-old with perhaps 10 years of experience.&nbsp; They should at least take a second look at someone who is more seasoned instead of settling for someone who has likely never handled tough circumstances before.<\/p>\n<p>Researcher and author Tom Rainer states, &ldquo;The age of 55 is a psychological barrier for many churches when hiring, and it&rsquo;s a shame.&rdquo;&nbsp; He admits, however, that all age discrimination is not malicious. <sup>4<\/sup><\/p>\n<p>Churches can also provide coordinated volunteer opportunities to match the skills of their retired population.&nbsp; Household maintenance, quilting, knitting, sewing, tutoring, landscape work, caregiving and auto repair are just a few examples. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I have observed numerous examples of mature individuals who have spread the love of God while in their later years.&nbsp; One couple, then in their 70s, grew turnip greens and distributed them to people in need in their community.&nbsp; An 80-year-old woman in a former church used the wordless book to spread the gospel on a mission trip to Brazil.&nbsp; Yet another woman in her 80s told the Bible story to children during Vacation Bible School each year, in spite of her blindness.&nbsp; A retired Navy man in his 70s shared God&rsquo;s love with toddlers each Sunday.&nbsp; A woman in her 70s in another state faithfully sent cards of cheer and greetings for many years until her health declined. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>From what I can tell, God does not give us a date for retirement or a time limit for Christians to serve, whether in paid or volunteer positions.&nbsp; We are to show respect for the elderly and are to carry out God&rsquo;s mission for as long as we can. &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>&mdash; Deena Williams Newman is a freelance writer, educator, and minister living in Leesburg, Georgia.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>Footnotes:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>1 &nbsp; &nbsp; Richard Hammer.&nbsp; &ldquo;Pastor, Church &amp; &amp;Law. Volume 3.&nbsp; Chapter 8. &nbsp; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.churchlawandtax.com\/library\/employment-law\/chapter-8-part-3-employment\">www.churchlawandtax.com\/library\/employment-law\/chapter-8-part-3-employment<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>2 &nbsp; &nbsp; Wilkey, Dana.&nbsp; &ldquo;Discrimination against Older Workers May be Common but Hard to Prove.&rdquo;&nbsp; Society for Human Resource Management.&nbsp; May 3, 2018.&nbsp; <a href=\"http:\/\/www.shrm.org\/resourcesandtools\/hr-topics\/employee-relations\/pages\/age-discrimination\">www.shrm.org\/resourcesandtools\/hr-topics\/employee-relations\/pages\/age-discrimination<\/a>.&nbsp; &nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>3 &nbsp; &nbsp; Orman, Suze.&nbsp; &ldquo;Suze Orman Says This is the Age You Should Retire &ndash;&nbsp; Not a Month or Year Before.&rdquo;&nbsp; Money.&nbsp; October 23, 2017.&nbsp; <a href=\"http:\/\/time.com\/money\/4989314\/suze-orman-new-retirement-rule\">time.com\/money\/4989314\/suze-orman-new-retirement-rule<\/a><\/p>\n<p>4 &nbsp; &nbsp; Howe, Jonathan, host.&nbsp; &ldquo;Age Discrimination and Church Hiring&rdquo; &#8211;&nbsp; Rainer on Leadership #158.&nbsp; September 11, 2015.&nbsp; <a href=\"http:\/\/thomrainer.com\/2015\/09\/age-discrimination-and-church-hiring-rainer-on-leadership\">thomrainer.com\/2015\/09\/age-discrimination-and-church-hiring-rainer-on-leadership<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Deena Williams Newman It&rsquo;s not fair; but who said life was fair?&nbsp; A normally upbeat 63-year-old man ...<\/p>","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"footnotes":""},"categories":[10,171],"tags":[],"aioseo_notices":[],"amp_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5078"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5078"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5078\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":6998,"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5078\/revisions\/6998"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5078"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5078"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/christianethicstoday.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5078"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}